1. Mempergunakan
Wth is this one with as the main issue? Hahaha. Someone want to borrow your car, that's why they are suddenly come and knock your door. Someone want place to sleep for free, that's why they came and praise you a lot. Someone asks for a ride, that's why she listens to your sad episodes. Someone want free things, that's why they came as close as they can to get all of it. Someone asks for free articles, that's why they buy your attention. Someone asks you to be his life-savior, that's why he came crying when he didnt believe others and you fall carelessly. They didnt have same value of offers. That defines mempergunakan so well, damn so well.
2. Dipergunakan
Sebab kau bodoh. Didnt it obvious? And one more thing, bcus you are too kind. Absolutely, you didnt want to see anyone in pain just like you. You just dont want people be in your wrecked spot, it is awful. Not anyone's fault, if they come for reason. It just, let just be nice. There are so many left to do good, rather than to feel bad.
Anis Suraya, if there is someone coming for you, dont make it hard tau. Life might be randomness but dont let it decide-less.